We all think we’re being real—whether in public or in private—but the deeper challenge is questioning whether we truly know our real selves at all. In any case, even when we know ourselves we might face various pressures that push us to fit in or not cause trouble – so even the most well-intentioned person might struggle to always be 100% real in public. Sometimes the simplest questions are actually the most complex. Thankfully, we have some wonderful members of the community who offered to share their thoughts on this challenging question.
Darren Loscalzo
I believe so, I have always had a hospitality approach to everything I do. From treating my regulars and customers like friends and family at the restaurants I worked in, to hosting friends and family at my house, hospitality has always been my passion. Read more>>
Ethan Kidd-Oyakhilome
I would say that the public version of me is half of the real me! Publicly I’m known for being high energy, always telling jokes, and being the most social person in the room. At home I’m quiet, focused, and very private. Read more>>
Ray Mabalot
Very much so. We dont put on fake smiles etc etc. Sometimes we hurt feelings. Sometimes we make people upset. We give 0 fucks about it. You always get the real Ray and Nikki . We’re an anomaly in the service industry. The customer isnt always right. We do it our way end of story and our customers love us. Read more>>
Karen Cerboni
The version of me you see publicly is the real me—what you see is truly what you get. One of the greatest gifts of life experience is confidence. I know who I am, and I don’t feel the need to be anything else. I’ve learned that authenticity isn’t just freeing—it’s powerful. Read more>>
